Do you want to be the perfect guy for your
girlfriend? This article explains how to be the 'Mr Right' she is looking for -
without changing yourself!
If you believe she is "Ms. Right," than she
should be your number one priority! You should care for her as you care for
yourself. If your girlfriend is indeed Ms. Right, she will do the same for you.
If you never understand women in general, how
will you understand your girl? Women are very maternal creatures: they love
taking care of things. That's why she cooks you great meals, or worries when
you don't call after you've driven home. Understand that she is not being
clingy; it is a natural part of being a woman, and therefore part of who she
is. Perceive it as a good thing; women are only inclined to do this if they genuinely
love and care about you a great deal. If she has stopped doing these things,
there's something wrong! Remember also that women have been raised around
stories that end in girls finding the 'Perfect Man', become a Princess and live
happily ever after. Therefore, it is ingrained into their subconsciousness that
they must find a man who is perfect in every way. While this
is basically impossible, this article will help you understand what will make
her happy, without changing your own personality.
Tell her you love her, make sure you mean it.
Tell her she's beautiful and mean it. Compliment her not only
on her looks, but also on her accomplishments, talents and abilities. Always be
sincere.
Be confident. Be proud of being her boyfriend. There
are appropriate times and places for affection. Kissing and intimate touching
does not usually go over well in public. But don't be too shy to hold her hand
in public because you shouldn't be ashamed that she's yours. She will love it
when you walk by her friends and they see how good her boy friend is.
Never lie. Lies mean trouble. This can taint your
relationship and reduce her trust in you considerably. How would you feel if
she started to lie to you?
Do not argue in public and cause a scene. This will humiliate her
or you and she'll think twice about going out with you again. Similarly, If you
and your girl have an argument, don't do or say things to her that are mean and
spiteful. That will make her know your inner self, and don't you want to be her
Mr. Right?
If you're with your friends, never ignore her and
start talking with your friends or walk off with them as if she's not there. How would you feel if
she did this to you? Invisible? Make sure you pay attention to her when you're
with your friends. Think about it - she's a friend too. Girl-friend. If you're
with a group of mates, make sure she doesn't feel left out if she doesn't know
them well. Keep close to her or glance at her every so often just to let her
know you know she's still there and offer a genuine smile.
Be thoughtful. The small things matter the most. Be a
gentleman; hold doors open for her, be polite and be helpful. Ask her if she's
cold when it's cold out; have a jacket or a sweater handy so you can give it to
her, but don't outdo it, it won't look sincere. When she isn't feeling well, or
home sick bring her some soup, hot tea or flowers. Hold her hand at the movies
or when you're walking. Get her something just because. Make her happy by
buying her little gifts. Small things like a single flower or a magazine you
know she likes, a bag of her favorite candy or a chocolate bar will go a long
way. Girls love that.
Remember important dates. This is a big deal with
women. Birthdays, anniversaries and other milestones are all opportunities to
show her how special she is to you. Keep an agenda or a calendar with all these
dates. When it's her birthday, bring her breakfast in bed and some flowers.
When it's your anniversary, book something special for you both to let her know
how much you appreciate and love her. Remember that women have the idea of
being spoiled on these occasions embedded into their psyche from the media.
Rose petals on your bed, dinner at a beautiful restaurant - all these things
show you care. You don't have to spend like crazy - it isn't about the money
but the thought behind the action.
Remember what she likes and dislikes. How does she like her
eggs cooked? What is her favorite flower? Perfume? What does she enjoy doing
when it comes to dates? She will be very impressed that you have been paying
attention. It pays to be thoughtful.
Touch her regularly and on the spur of the moment! Even the slightest
touch can make a woman feel special. Hold her hand, give her a hug or gently
touch her face; these gestures will all make her feel protected and loved!
Write her love notes. They don't have to be
long, mushy and poetic if you're not the type, even quick and silly ones will
do but try to make them cute (add some related drawing) and show her that you
care. This is a great way to be romantic. Tell her that you're lucky that you
found her. She loves it when you say it. Just be sure you mean it. Look her in
the eye and mentally say it.
Every woman loves a bit of alone time with her
partner.
Book a whole day for the two of you to be alone. Watch a movie at home, massage
her back, snuggle and be intimate. She will love you for it.
Share your everyday events and thoughts with your
girl.
Being open and communicative makes her feel like you want her in your life. On
the same note, listen to her advice even if you don't agree, force yourself to
listen and to see the good of her reasoning. Keep an open ear and an open mind.
Listen to her. The number one complaint many women have
regarding men is that they don't listen. Even if you're not particularly
interested in what she's saying, listen, then acknowledge that you were
listening. Let her know that you are the one that she can talk to about
anything! Be there for her through thick and thin. She will feel comfortable
with you and trust you.
Always stand up for her no matter what;(up to a
point but discuss it privately). It shows her that you are on her side.
Lastly, if you want her to be yours forever, let
her know you're there for her when she needs you, and most importantly make her
feel loved, special, safe and protected. Your woman wants to be your queen so treat her
as such and you'll glide happily along.
If she wants to pay for something sometimes, let
her.
Just ensure you don't change roles, you're the man.
Make sure you spend enough time with her to show
her how much you care, and to make your relationship grow.
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