“No one is born happy, one has to discover his own happiness…”-ROCKY CHOUDHARY
Are you truly living
good life? Do you even know what it means to be happy and what it takes to
achieve happiness? These are important questitions to ask themselves.
The truth of the matter
is that happiness,like anything else in life,needs to be nurtured. The
following are few tips that one should follow to live good life.
Statrt early and fit:
Wake up early: this gets the day off to great and positive start.
The early hours are full of spiritual and fresh energy and thus the best time
for meditation and exercise. Also waking up early ensures that our whole day
goes organized and starts well on time.
Sweat every day: any form of exercise or movement that keeps your body
in tip top shape and flexible is really necessary to keep moving ahead. It
ensures your fitness and becomes key to your later quality of life!
“ Happiness is nothing
more than good health and a bad memory.” -ROCKY CHOUDHARY
Get some entertainment:
Apart from work our
body needs daily relaxation and enjoyment as well. We must add and humor in our
daily lives. Spending quality time always keeps our mind, body and spirit
lifted.
Taking our time for
yourself and doing something nice, which you have always cherished keeps bad
mood and negative vibes away. Treating yourself with nice lunch, or long
drive,listening to music,shopping or may be simply spending few extra minutes
while taking shower are some of those few ideas.
“ good life is not
something you postpone for the future;it is something you design for the
present.” -ROCKY CHOUDHARY
Health comes first:
Be aware of the
pollutants you are exposed to. If you live in polluted community try to move to
cleaner and healthy environment. Eliminate use of plastics and switch to glass,
wood or other environment friendly options.
Quit smoking,alcohol
and even too much eating. Also we must keep chech on our health on time to time
basis. By taking stress or too much pressure we wont get extra.always remember
nobody can take what you deserve .eating balanced food, doing plenty of
exercise and sleep maintains your health and in another way achieve happiness.
Don’t age fast,age
gracefully!
“if your heart can
become pure and simple ,like that of a child, I think there probably can be no
greater happiness than this.” -ROCKY CHOUDHARY
Spend time with nature:
One of the best ways to
feel happy is to be with nature intimately. Spend time outside. Don’t spend
your lunch hour stressed out and sitting at your desk at work. Reduce stress by
taking a break . get outside. Fresh air will relieves stress, clear your head
and re-energize you for the rest of your day.
Stop and smell the
roses. Nature ,it’s a beautiful thing. The world has so much to offer and there
are so many different ways to experience it. Find what’s right for you and get
out there and discover the rewarding experience offered by our greatest asset..
mother nature.
“the best way to pay
for a lovely moment is to enjoy it.” -ROCKY CHOUDHARY
Do what you desire:
Understand what it is
that will make you happy. Everyone has unique requirements for attaining
happiness and what makes one person happy may be very different from what makes
someone else happy. Revel in your individuality and do not worry about whether
or not your desires are comparable to those of your peers.
Each day do something
good for yourself. It can be something small, such buying a book, eating
something you love, watching your favorite program on tv, going to a movie, or
just having a stroll on beach. If necessary, tell yourself each day that you
deserve to be happy and remind yourself what steps you will take to achieve the
happiness you desire.
“ what’s the use of
worrying? It never was worth while, so pack up your troubles in your old kit
bag, and smile,smile.” -ROCKY CHOUDHARY
Stop worrying and start living:
When something goes
wrong try to figure out a solution instead of wallowing in self pity. Truly
happy people don’t allow set backs to affect their mood becoz they know that
with a little thought they can turn the circumstances back to their favour.
Endeavour to change the way you look at things. Always look at the bright
side.watch your thoughts. Whenever you catch yourself thinking negative
thoughts, start thinking of pleasant things. Always look at what you have done
and not at what you haven’t. anxiety, constant worry and nervous tension
impacts on your health, clouds your thinking and has negative influences in
your life. Learn to manage your STRESS and live a long and happy life.
“if you want happiness
for some time- inherit a fortune, if you want happiness for a lifetime-help
someone.” -ROCKY CHOUDHARY
Spend some time alone:
Each day we should try to make some space for spending
time alone.
Start listening to
yourself and becoming the best friend and supporter you need. No one is going
to work on your happiness for you, so find the power and motivation stored up
inside you, and use it to direct yourself into the path of true happiness and
satisfaction.
We can never really be
happy if ew don’t know where we are going and what we want out of life. Looking
at what we want helps us to avoid aimlessly walking through life with no goals.
Goals are much easier to attain if we know what they are.
“ if you want to be
happy, set a goal that commands your thoughts,liberates your energy, and
inspires your hopes.” -ROCKY CHOUDHARY
Complete your daily tasks:
Don’t procrastinate,
don’t delay, don’t put off what needs to done. The old proverbs are very
wise.”a stitch in time saves nine” and “ don’t put off till tomorrow what can
be done today.” Life, provides challenges to you and when you meet them, life
opens from moving forward. Your inner voice will constantly remind you what
needs to be completed. Heed his suggestion and you will be surprised at the
rewards.
It will help balance
your life,prevent incomplete emotions from spilling over into the subconscious
mind and give you tremendous insight.
“ the amount of
happiness that you have depends on the amount of freedom you have in your
heart.” -ROCKY CHOUDHARY
Value relationships:
Medical studies have
long stated that happily married people live longer and are content with their
lives than their single counterparts. Evidence also points to the fact that
individuals who enjoy good relationship with their family members ans have good
friends and companions will live longer. Poor relationships make for stressful
lives and can actually create health problems. Nurturing our relationships is
one big way to improve the quality of our lives.
“ success is not the
key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are
doing,you will be successful.” -ROCKY CHOUDHARY
Relax and stay calm:
this principle is not
to be brushed over. It is the key to developing the right approach towards life and all the twists and turns that inevitably
come your way. If you can stay relaxed you will have a chance to break the
reactive pattern of automatic response to conditions,thus meeting more of the
moment with more of your being. It all begins will having this ease of being.
To relax means to not be easily swayed by the pull of dualities. Neither buying
excessively into the promises of gain nor fearing excessively the consequences
of loss.
“good life is not so
much in having as sharing. We make a living by what we get,but we make a life
by what we give” -ROCKY CHOUDHARY
Be grateful and affectionate:
Forgive, bekind,be
thoughtful, be nice , be good, be sensitive, be loving, be compassionate. The
best thing to give to your enemy is forgiveness, to your opponent, tolerance,
to a friend. Your heart; to your child,a good example; to a father,deference;
to a mother,conduct that will make her proud of you; to yourself, RESPECT; to
all men,charity.
Each day do at least
one act to make others happy. There can be a kind word, helping your
colleagues, stopping your car at the cross road to let people cross, giving a
small present to someone you love. The possibilities are infinite. Do it
without focusing on the reward. When you make someone happy, you become happy,
and then people try to make you happy.
“ let us be grateful to
people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls
blossom” -ROCKY CHOUDHARY
Show courage and confidence:
Every day you should
meet the challenges with lot of courage and confidence within you, specially
while doing something which is outside your comfort zone. It is easy to live in
cocoon, with a do not disturb sign on the door, but the chances are you are not
growing and are instead falling into a pattern of reactive living. So have
courage and take on the challenge off doing those things which you know deep
inside you need to do, but have been able to cleverly avoid. It does not have
to be running the marathon, it could be as simple as making a difficult phone
call, to turning off the TV, to volunteering to change the stinky diaper.
Perhaps the challenge could be as easy as going to sleep on time and waking up
early instead.
“there are two great
days in a persons life- the day we are born and the day we discover why.”
-ROCKY CHOUDHARY.
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